Tired of doing all the legwork? Find out how to get that hot filly to come over and approach you for a change.
Smile
Simple right? Looking happy makes people want to be near you. You're approachable and fun. So keep a grin on your face, smile easily and often. Think of things that make you warm and joyful and you'll exude that.
Make an Eye Contact
Don't avert your gaze or freeze like a deer in the headlights. When someone makes eye contact, either purposefully or inadvertently, simply smile. Think of yourself as the cruise director putting your passengers at ease. If you're prone to high pressure, scary thoughts about getting her to like you and not looking dorky, you'll smile like an escaped patient from the pysch ward, so think about how insecure other people might be feeling and give them a reassuring smile!
Have Objects of Interest on or Around You
Pets are such chick magnets, slogan shirts - something cute, political, funny or out of the ordinary. Books, magazines - what if you had the hottest best-seller or a cool, unusual periodical that might draw attention? The New York Times crossword puzzle is popular and, if you're feeling brave, you can ask someone nearby for help with a tough clue. Leave the porn and Guns and Ammo magazines at home or you'll narrow your attraction possibilities considerably.
Give Comment On Things Around You
Make a no-response needed observation. I.e. "Cool backpack," "I love your haircut," "Cute puppy." You get the idea. Make a good-natured, genuine observation. It can't be contrived. If she has boring hair and you say, "Killer coiff" you'll sound phoney. So locate something you genuinely find special and tell her in a way that requires no follow up. Then you've opened the door to her approaching you, without creating the impression that you're hitting on her.
Look Great
Make sure you don't look like you're trying too hard. No "lift" shoes or statement jeans. Be comfortable, but classic, clean and, of course, yummy-smelling (No heavy cologne please. Most women aren't crazy about the stuff as it's often heavy and easily over-applied).
Talk To Other People Around
By that I don't mean other women. Even the idea that you may be going from one single woman to the next until you find one that sticks will repel her! Instead, talk to old ladies, little kids and other guys. Show her what a friendly, non-threatening fellow you are! Tell someone near her how awesome their t-shirt or laptop is or how much you love the book they're reading. She'll wonder why you didn't talk to her possibly! And she'll put you in the "safe" category, not with the creepy guys on the make!
Keep Your Body Language Masculine But Open
Women like men who take up space, stand tall and fill a room. Be sure you don't crossing your legs and arms away from her, creating barriers and deflecting her attention. Be open.
It's not unusual for men and women to be friends. You certainly have female friends, and your girlfriend no doubt has male friends, but if her best friend is a guy, well, that's a different story.
You meet a woman whom you think is wonderful & your type of girl. Both of you are getting along well. However, you found out that there is just one small detail that you can’t seem to get beyond… Her best friend is a guy.
I know what you’re probably thinking … “Well, what’s wrong with that?”
To be quite frank, a lot. You see, it’s rare to find a man that’s actively looking for female best friends. (Find me one, and I’ll find you a liar.) Sex always gets in the way,. Therefore, if a guy and a girl appear to be best friends, it's necessarily because one of them secretly wants to see the other naked.
So how do you tackle this issue if you found out that her best friend is a guy?
Don't Express Jealousy
Stay cool and don't show sign of jealousy. When she initially reveals that her best friend’s name is Tony and not Tonya, expect her to search for any signs of displeasure in your demeanor. Why? It's likely that your girl has dumped many previous boyfriends because he couldn't handle the fact that her best friend is a guy. Instead, try to acknowledge how glad you are that she has good people in her life. Besides, jealousy makes you look insecure.
Meet The Best Friend
Arrange to meet her best friend. It's the only way you'll be able to accurately assess their relationship. It's the only way you'll be able to accurately assess their relationship. Does he stare at her longingly? Does she flirt with him?
You may try to ask her questions about their friendship. Did they used to date ? Does she flirt with him ? Once you gather the proper background information, you can then begin to assess his mindset. After all, your main concern is his intentions … not hers.
Be Nice
There’s no sense in being rude, or acting like you disapprove of his presence in her life. She's going to judge you based on how you treat her friends, so make a real effort every time he's around. Take the road less traveled by getting to know him. This approach provides you with a clearer sense of why she values his friendship & if you're consistently nice to him, and he's consistently a dick to you, you'll be the nice guy who's making an effort, and he'll be the jerk..
Find Him A Girlfriend
Try to hook him up with an acquaintance or two. You can even suggest that the four of you go on a double date.
Take His Place
The final step is to take his place. Be there whenever she needs you. If she enjoys his company while grocery shopping, then it’s time for you to get behind that cart and start pushing. Encourage her whenever she starts complaining about him. Be there whenever the two of them get into an argument. But remember, don't try to insult or talk bad about him in front of her. If you manage to get this done, their relationship will begin to change.
Valentine Day is near. Are you planning to buy your loved one a banquet of roses ?
Before you try to impress that someone with that bouquet of roses, make sure you know the meaning behind it, the meaning of roses; what the number of roses represent.
Meaning of Colour of Roses
Red
Sincere Love & Respect, Courage & Passion
Send red roses to convey the message of your passionate love for that someone; saying "I love you"
Pink
Grace and Gentility, the rose of sweet thoughts.
Send deep pink roses to show your appreciation & gratitude; saying "Thank you" Send light pink roses to convey admiration and sympathy
Yellow
In the Victorian times, yellow roses meant jealousy. But today, they signify friendship, joy, gladness and freedom, the promise of a new beginning.
Send yellow roses to brighten up someone's day; to congratulate your friends and loved ones during Joyous occasions.
White
Spiritual love & Purity, the rose of confession, the bridal rose; "You are heavenly", "I am worthy of you"
Commonly used as traditional bridal bouquet during weddings to symbolize a happy love. You can nevertheless use them to convey the message of "You are heavenly, I miss you"
Lavender
Love at first sight and enchantment
Send lavender roses of course, to convey the message of your "love at first sight" with that special someone. You can nevertheless also send them if you would like to make a special impression.
Orange
Passionate desire, pure enthusiasm and fascination
An excellent choice for a new relationship that you wish to pursue further. It can nevertheless also be referring to a new business partnership.
Meaning of Number of Roses :
1 Rose - Love at the first sight; you are the one
2 Roses - Mutual love between both, deeply in love with one another
3 Roses - I love you
6 Roses - I wanna be yours
7 Roses - I’m infatuated with you
9 Roses - An Eternal love, together as long as we live
10 Roses - You are perfect
11 Roses - You are my treasured one; the one I love most in my life
12 Roses - Be my steady
13 Roses - Secret Admirer
15 Roses - I am truly sorry, please forgive me
20 Roses - Believe me, I am sincere towards you
21 Roses - I am devoted to you
24 Roses - Can’t stop thinking about you, 24 hours everyday
33 Roses - Saying “I love you” with great affection
36 Roses - I will remember our romantic moments
40 Roses - My love for you is genuine
50 Roses - Regretless love, this is
99 Roses - I will love you for as long as I live
100 Roses - Harmoniously together in a century; remaining devoted as couple till ripe-old age -
101 Roses - You are my one and only love
108 Roses - Please marry me!
365 Roses - Can’t stop thinking about you, each and everyday
999 Roses - Everlasting and Eternal love
If you are choosing flowers for your partner, please pay attention to the colour. Every colour reflects your feeling and emotion for your partner. Love, passion, desire, eroticism.
Red - Love, passion, desire, eroticism
Dark Red - Beauty and Love
White & Red - Unity, togetherness, long-lasting love, bonding
Pink - Romance, sweetness, playfulness, gladnessPink is a feminine color perfect for those fun, playful couples.
Whether it's a pink rose or a pink diamond (like Ben Affleck giving to Jennifer Lopez), it's perfect for the sweet, romantic person in your life.
Yellow - Friendship, joy, happiness
If you want to slow things down, yellow, the color of friendship, is the color to send. It's also better to steer clear of roses, traditionally a romantic flower, in this situation. The exception would be if you are sending them to a current friend who you hope would become more, but you want to take it slow.
Yellow & Red - Falling in love, start of a new romance
Orange - Fascination, warmth, happiness
Peach - Wisdom, gratitude, appreciation
Green - Harmony, fertility, richness
Give her a plant and a note telling her how truly rich she has made your life.
Blue - Stability, trustworthy, tranquil
Purple/Lavender - Enchantment, unique, noble, devotion
A recent It's Just Lunch survey found that :
46% say their biggest pet peeve is when their date answers their cell phone during a meal and another 41% think being rude to the wait staff of a restaurant is a major no-no.
26% of men and 37% of women say one of their pet peeves is when their date talks too much and only about themselves.
Men and women also agree that it’s better not to talk about your “ex” on a first date—30% say it’s the quickest way to not get a second date. Singles also think that the best first date conversations consist of getting to know what the other person likes and dislikes and what their hobbies are.
56% of women say they hate when their date is more interested in the waitress than them and shows it.
When in comes to hygiene and appearance, 42% of men and 53% of women dislike when their date is un-groomed.
59% of singles agree that bad body odor is their biggest turn-off.
The survey also found that 71% of men would accept a second date with a women even if she displayed one of his pet peeves. Women, however, are not as forgiving; only 42% would attempt a repeat date in the same situation.
Do you know that women send 5 times more body language signals than men ? It shows that men has 5 times more chances to know if women are interested in them. Here are common signals given by her.
Eye Contact
She gives you full attention with lingering glance which last for few mins. Then, she will break the eye contact by looking away. She might be looking at you from time to time.
Smiling
She smiles at you after coupling of eye contact. It shows that she enjoys your company. So, try to smile back at her.
Playing with Hair
If you see her twirling or playing with her hair, it shows that she is flirting. According to Oliver Jameson, hair is woman's source of power and confident.
Draws Closer to You
She might lean closer to you and trying to whisper in your eyes. Or she might lean closer to you trying to hear your better during conversation to create intimacy between you and her.
Body Contact
It is a big sign if she touches you. She might pretend to tap your back or touch your hand accidentally. If she touches your hand for more than a few seconds, IT IS A SIGN!
Having a Good Time
She is laughing and joking with her friends but constantly looking at you. She is giving a sign and trying to let you know that she is a fun person.
She Starts the Conversation
She might came to you to talk and would like to know more about you.