Tired of doing all the legwork? Find out how to get that hot filly to come over and approach you for a change.
Smile
Simple right? Looking happy makes people want to be near you. You're approachable and fun. So keep a grin on your face, smile easily and often. Think of things that make you warm and joyful and you'll exude that.
Make an Eye Contact
Don't avert your gaze or freeze like a deer in the headlights. When someone makes eye contact, either purposefully or inadvertently, simply smile. Think of yourself as the cruise director putting your passengers at ease. If you're prone to high pressure, scary thoughts about getting her to like you and not looking dorky, you'll smile like an escaped patient from the pysch ward, so think about how insecure other people might be feeling and give them a reassuring smile!
Have Objects of Interest on or Around You
Pets are such chick magnets, slogan shirts - something cute, political, funny or out of the ordinary. Books, magazines - what if you had the hottest best-seller or a cool, unusual periodical that might draw attention? The New York Times crossword puzzle is popular and, if you're feeling brave, you can ask someone nearby for help with a tough clue. Leave the porn and Guns and Ammo magazines at home or you'll narrow your attraction possibilities considerably.
Give Comment On Things Around You
Make a no-response needed observation. I.e. "Cool backpack," "I love your haircut," "Cute puppy." You get the idea. Make a good-natured, genuine observation. It can't be contrived. If she has boring hair and you say, "Killer coiff" you'll sound phoney. So locate something you genuinely find special and tell her in a way that requires no follow up. Then you've opened the door to her approaching you, without creating the impression that you're hitting on her.
Look Great
Make sure you don't look like you're trying too hard. No "lift" shoes or statement jeans. Be comfortable, but classic, clean and, of course, yummy-smelling (No heavy cologne please. Most women aren't crazy about the stuff as it's often heavy and easily over-applied).
Talk To Other People Around
By that I don't mean other women. Even the idea that you may be going from one single woman to the next until you find one that sticks will repel her! Instead, talk to old ladies, little kids and other guys. Show her what a friendly, non-threatening fellow you are! Tell someone near her how awesome their t-shirt or laptop is or how much you love the book they're reading. She'll wonder why you didn't talk to her possibly! And she'll put you in the "safe" category, not with the creepy guys on the make!
Keep Your Body Language Masculine But Open
Women like men who take up space, stand tall and fill a room. Be sure you don't crossing your legs and arms away from her, creating barriers and deflecting her attention. Be open.
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