Long Distance Relationship (LDR) needs double effort to preserve compared to non-LDR. There are lots of thing that you have to do and refrain from doing in order to survive. But, don't worry, we have advices that you might find useful. Although they may look simple but when it comes to the actual execution, it may take more than your effort and discipline. It is your desire to survive the relationship that makes the most impact in writing the outcome of your distance relationship.
Communication
Communication is vital in preserving your LDR. You need to increase the quantity and quality of your communication with your woman. Try getting a cheap international talktime phone card or subcribe to a cell phone plan which offers best rates in international calls.
You should schedule communication time in your calendar just like meeting that you may have written down in your diary. If you are unable to call on that day, be sure to let her know. Try closing a gap with video chat. such as Skype.com or MSN.com
Set A Goal
Before jumping into LDR, both should first plan and agree on an end goal that both can look forward to or focus on. Long distance relationships mostly fail because neither person can really see it going anywhere in the long term.
Schedule Visits
Plan a trip to visit her. Physical relations is still required during LDR. A trip to visit her every once in a while shows her that you still care, and that she’s still very important to you no matter how far away she is.
Don’t just go and visit each other though. Instead, try to create something uniquely you. Taking mutual vacations away from your respective lives creates newness in your relationship and keeps it progressing. It’s important that your relationship continues to grow, not just maintains, despite the distance.
Raise your trust level
There are no rooms for suspicion in a long distance relationship. In order for you to survive your distance relationship, you must learn to trust your partner whole heartedly. A single suspicion will break the bond you have for each other.
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